I don't get it. I just don't get it when couples argue about something such as when they will get married. Methinks it should be a matter of "Do you want to get married or not?". It should be either you know it or you don't. Sure, there's some part of it that requires planning. But some part of it, I believe, you leave to Lady Luck. If we always say, we need to have a house first, or we need to buy a car first, or whatever material possession that we may need to have first before one get married, isn't that a way to excuse one's self from committing? True, we need to be financially independent from our parents. But isn't financial independence just a matter of change in lifestyle? I might be naive in terms of how I see things. But I keep thinking about the stuff that went through my mind when we decided that we want to get married. We just took a leap of faith knowing that we would rather spend the rest of our lives together, commit to each other. Sure marriage is just a bond with a piece of paper but it is a paper that is LEGALLY binding. Owell. I'm just wondering about the whys.

DA GANDA blogged @ 8/15/2005 05:43:00 PM